Gifts are a continuation of character

An ideal gift can express a special wish and convey a special message to both the giver and recipient. And what gifts represent is another kind of relationship signal, which not only declares your relationship with the recipient, that is, close friends, harmonious neighbors, close relatives, but also reflects the respect you hope to win in the eyes of others. More importantly, it represents a deeper sense of character.

A gift is like a piece of jade, it can reflect the true thoughts of the giver and recipient, and is an external manifestation of a person's character. Many people believe that giving gifts is a burden, and the reason for doing it is to prove that one is a polite person. This type of person always rushes to the store at the end of the day, buys a gift casually, puts it in the recipient's hand, and says a few congratulatory words, even if everything goes smoothly and the task is completed. As for where the recipient later stuffed the uninteresting gift, they don't care. Because they make giving gifts an obligation they have to fulfill.

Why do you say that? Because everyone knows that giving gifts involves giving something that people like, and these preferences can reflect a person's inner thoughts, including the recipient's inner thoughts and the giver's inner thoughts. As the saying goes, "Circumstances arise from the heart." The recipient of a gift needs what kind of gift, as long as it is a gift giver who can generally see, these gifts can precisely reflect the person's character, because a person's inner desires cannot be concealed, just like a person's character will eventually be exposed in front of everyone.

Some people give gifts that are very substandard: either they give fake goods, outdated items, or some retro expired supplements, which really makes the recipient laugh and cry. Of course, there are two reasons why these people do this. One is to believe that these gifts are equivalent to your identity. This starting point is completely a form of contempt and contempt, which is a lack of respect for the recipient. Another starting point is that he doesn't care about his own image at all, believing that giving gifts is just a form and spending some money casually to handle things. And this starting point is a mockery of oneself, a stain on one's own image, which not only has no positive significance but also has a negative impact.

Whether it is for any of these two purposes, it is a destruction of one's own image. So, why is there such a negative effect when it is also a gift giving behavior and involved in the gift giving process? Mainly due to the insufficient understanding of gift giving by the giver.

Firstly, in the subjective consciousness of these individuals, they did not attach great importance to the gift giving process, believing that they were dealing with an insignificant person, and therefore relaxed their consciousness. Therefore, in the process of selecting gifts, they were hasty and did not pay attention to the value of the gifts at all. In fact, doing so is a big mistake. Perhaps the person you are about to contact cannot provide you with any financial or material assistance, but they can also make their own judgments about you. As a result, the image of the gift giver is not only damaged, but also left a lasting impression.

Secondly, those who are completely ignorant of gift giving. Of course, there are also people who are not good at dealing with people. They do not know how to open up others' hearts and believe that giving gifts is like visiting a house. They just need to take something to express their feelings. These people may be just stingy and have no other personality issues.

No matter what type of gift giver we are, we should have a clear understanding of the most basic common sense of gift giving and master gift giving skills, which will take us further on the road to success.

Regardless of whether the gift is voluntary or not, each gift must be selected before being presented. Because gifts are an extension of your character, they can showcase your interests, even your wisdom and talent. What to give and how to give will leave an important and lasting impression on people. The same applies to how the other party accepts.

No matter what the purpose of your gift giving is, always give something that the other person likes, but during the gift giving process, pay attention to the central idea of expressing the importance of the gift. In fact, many times we give gifts not only to enhance our image and status in the other person's eyes, but also to make sure that this gift is not given in vain, fully expressing our intentions, and enhancing mutual goodwill. This is a wise and wise approach for a wise person!