A gift giving method that is not satisfactory after a hundred trials

The reason why giving gifts is called art is because of the word 'give'. This is a crucial part of the entire gift giving process. If given well and with appropriate methods, everyone will be happy and the realm will be fully revealed. If gift giving is not done well, the expected effect will not be achieved. Only by skillfully mastering the gift giving techniques can the entire gift giving process be brought to a beautiful end. So, it is very necessary to learn some gift giving techniques. Here are some common and effective gift giving techniques.

1. Borrowing Flowers as a Gift to Buddha

If you give a local specialty product, it can be said that someone from your hometown came here to try it out. If there are not many things and you haven't spent money on them, please ask them to accept them. Generally speaking, the recipient's refusal to accept a gift due to their fear of having too much purpose can be alleviated and they will accept your gift.

5. Steadily crossing the Chen Cang

If you are giving something like wine, it's better to pretend that someone else gave you two bottles of wine to have a drink with them. This way, if you drink one bottle and give it away, the relationship will be closer and there will be no signs of it. Isn't it wonderful.

3. Baking the Clouds and Towering the Moon

Sometimes you want to give a gift to someone, but the other person has no connection with you, or if you have had a holiday with the other person and it is inconvenient to give it directly, you may choose the birthday of the giver and invite several acquaintances to give the gift to congratulate you, so that the recipient will not be able to refuse. When he later learned that you had the idea, he would inevitably change his view of you and use everyone's power to achieve the goal of gift giving and friendship, which is actually the best strategy.

4. Let's start with borrowing

If you are giving something as a gift, it can be said that it is also kept at home. Let him take it and use it first, and then buy it later before returning it; If you are giving money, it can be said that you will spend it first and pay it back later when you have it. As long as you don't urge him to return it, it will become a gift forever, which can also reduce the psychological burden on the recipient, and your goal of giving gifts will be achieved.

5. Taking the opportunity to lay eggs

A subordinate received a lot of favors from his boss and always wanted to repay, but he had no chance. One day, he accidentally found that the calligraphy and painting inlaid in the mahogany mirror frame of his boss felt like a rubbinger, which was not in harmony with the elegant furnishings at home. Just as it happened, his uncle was a well-known calligrapher in the country, and he still had calligraphy and painting gifts on hand. He immediately brought the calligraphy and paintings and took the initiative to put them in the dysprosium box. The boss not only did not object, but also showed great affection. The goal of giving gifts was finally achieved. Sometimes, it's not advisable to give charcoal in a timely manner, adding icing on the cake is also a good strategy.

6. Borrowing roads and building bridges

You can tell the recipient when giving a gift that it was purchased at the factory price, wholesale price, or discounted price, symbolically charging the recipient some fees, and the effect received is similar to that of giving a gift. The recipient of the gift received the item with peace of mind and no worries due to paying the money.

7. Playing hard to get

A gift given by a person has never been rejected by the other party. The secret he revealed was to first deliberately ask the other party for a small favor, and then openly say, "Thank you for your help, this is my heartfelt gratitude." In this way, he can smoothly give the gift to the other party. This method is very interesting, and it shares the same beauty as the "play to get" in Sun Tzu's Art of War.